I have an appt with a lawyer tomorrow. I'm at least getting a Legal separation to start wiht. My mind is wondering WHY hasn't she filed yet? She put a retainer on a lawyer a week and a 1/2 ago. Why hasn't she done anything. I'll tell you why.. If she does file she'll get a legal separation. IE: Child support only, We'll have to Split all the bills, expences. Etc.. AS it is now She has the best of both worlds. She gets to live at home all expences paid. She even gets to chat the night away with her boyfriend. and still I continue to fully support tham. Why would she want to give that up?
No more. I'm checking out. I'm pissed off right now. CAn I really take another face full of Sh*t and keep smiling? How much can I stand? She knows I won't do anything. She knows I really want this to work out, Why would I do anything? I am going to get a legal separation for now and If it leads to a divorce? So be it. That is not what I want. But I can only get walked on so much and continue to take it.
I'm checking out. I'm in no way giving up .But this nonscence has to stop.