My H - when he was still in the fog - said he felt we had enough extreme issues to warrent the affair.
Mine said the exact same thing.
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But when we went to Retrouvaille he said the A only made things worse exponentially - if he had just come to me about his issues/unhappiness then we would not have been in so deep...this caused him and I a lot of pain....
We didn't do Retro,but my H also said the same thing again. They CAN change and see the light. It's that revelation that makes me hope/believe he would not have an A again.
Hang in there lwb - your H is on the move emotionally wise.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
