If you have any idea how to do this, I'd be happy to hear it!
I don't have any experience with this. I would just behave like the kind of person she would welcome back. No grumpy/surly/moody. No passive-aggressive. Just a cheerful person.
Then, it may be a good idea for you to broach the subject. "Hey, in the past, we have talked about me coming back to the home. Are you willing to help me get this done?" Or words to that effect.
