She called me tonight, was on the phone with her for 46 minutes. Talked a lot about her work, like we used to. She is getting the short end of the stick, and I told her how much I support her and I hate to see her put so much effort in for so little reward.
She was asking me about the changes she is seeing in me, and I went into it a bit, but not too much. She asked if the people I work with are seeing it, and some are, and have commented. She said "wow, all these changes and I'm not there to see it".
She said she has some catching up to do on the personal growth side, her 2 weeks living at her sister's place didn't give her the alone time she needs. She's "hermiting" now (her words) and will start to hopefully be able to reflect on her life and (my words) hopefully see me in it with her.
It was an awesome phone call, and I will take this as a positive sign.
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!