Dave,
Have you read The Way of the Superior Man? I think his view of the male-female dichotomie explains a lot of what is going on in your R right now.

Your W is testing you.

First she tests you by being a b!tch to see if that will sway you from your course.

Next she tests you by turning on the charm, dressing up and cooking for you to see if that will sway you from your course.

Well done, you passed the test so far. This will, according to Deida, draw her to you because you have shown that your course is unwaivering. Unfortunately, if she is in MLC, this attraction may cause a whole miriad of negative feelings in her and then you start the whole cycle all over again!!

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This is a wild ride , at least its not boring ! I might as well enjoy it.


LOL!!! Great attitude! I had never thought of it that way!
SD


Me 41
W 41
Kids: S9 S7
Married 16 years
Bomb dropped 2/2/07
Still living together!
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