No it does not matter what the truth is you re right. But what matters is to be able to at least be honest with each other.
Phil, I will try your method and STFU as you put it....you know this is going to be hard. I think W knows I am onto her because she is not home yet.....she called in a very good mood at 20:30 when she left the MIL's apt. (another dishonest person).