JOHN210(AKA the angry LBS or SOB)

[I_Wanna_Make_It_Work]

Now I can't figure every scenario on how this may play out - but the answer is the same. No anger. And with an unexpected peace from within.

"W, I don't want to fight with you - but I will do everything in my power to fight FOR you. I know there are some ongoing issues between us - and I believe we can resolve them. I learned somethings about your trip that put my world in a tailspin. Things I don't want to believe. And whether you decide to stay or go, I think the least we owe each other is honesty". Then STFU and listen.

And if you are really sincere about wanting to work it out - it doesn't matter what the truth is, does it?