Hey GFI! Thanks for stopping by my new thread. Looks like I'm back to being a newbie in the advice department! Still keeping my PMA and GAL, though. Started bike training last weekend.
Originally Posted By: GFI
I think I'm in with O-Mark above - lay off the overt wooing / courting bit which might be interpreted as pursuing. What would happen if you were to turn down the heat a bit and invest that effort in your PMA and GALing.
Okay, I'll think about that advice more seriously. I'm not pursuing, keeping things very calm - suggesting doing something once a week because DR says if you've been neglecting, you need to show interest. But since we're separated, maybe she needs to think more about everything she's losing. That's what I was doing, but it seemed like it was making her more determined to not see any of my changes.
Her being so matter of fact about saying she wanted a D caught me off-guard, though. I didn't show it to her, but that combined with A is really ripping me up right now.
But, the universe provides. Got a chance to go to mexico for the weekend, so maybe sitting on the beach in Cabo can help me think more clearly!
