Yeah, it's the simple things that really mess you up...I use to park at the house and then walk to 5D's school to pick her up. Obviously, I can't do that now. Maybe I can another day...try to find new things to do with your D, it helped me.
Well talk about being confused.. I just received a text message from W saying; "believe it or not I miss you".
None of this makes any sense anymore...you guys must think I am making this up. No, I do not have a drinking problem or consume any type of narcotic, legal or otherwise and finally senator, I have never taken steroids or gowth hormones.
At the moment W has no indication that you know she isn't where she told you she is, so heres my take on it.
1. Shes feeling some form of guilt. 2. Things may not be going so well in fantasy land with OM, so if she keeps you sweet she will still have you to come back to.
So you'll have to what and see what here reaction is when you next meet.
This is what I want to believe: She is not in fantasy land with OM....at wort she is in fantasyland period. The W I knew before the bomb would not text me twice in a week to tell me she misses me and be with OM.......however, we are talking about an alien (still dose not add up) Well tonight is the night as they say...hopefully I will not get in ian nterogation mode.
Tic toc tic toc...cell phone goes straight into voicemail.....she is in the air and should be landing at 18:30...her flight is delayed. Should be interesting to see what excuse she comes up with for being late........D7 will be in bed. I don't know if i should ask her point blank how her trip to paris was? Maybe I'll keep quiet and wait for her to admit it?????? I am getting a little antsy.......interesting that if my theory is correct, she was up at 4:00 AM. Paris time texting me that she misses me. I am sure I have a couple of you guys at the edge of your seats. I know this goes against all DB rules but I need to know. To that end, I have a buddy of mine and a coworker of his at the arrivals at the airport. Right now the best news I can hope for is she is on the flight alone. We will cross the other bridges (what ifs) if and when we need to.
I'm hoping against all hope you are wrong ... I hate to even see how bad this is going to turn out. It's a no-win and you shouldn't be going this route.
If she is with OM - you get enraged and M suffers.
If she is not with OM, and she finds out you snooped, spied, tracked and stalked her - she gets enranged and M suffers.
How does this get you closer to your goal?
It's not only anti-DB, it's a sure fire way to sabotage any chance you may have and coming to an agreement - if that's really what you want. I'm still not sure john210.
I don't mean to pile on to your distress - but you are all over the place and need to focus on what you want. In or out. If you want out - get out. If you want in, stop this destructive behavior.
Me - 43 and She -36. No kids. Married 7 yrs - Together 14 yrs
phil, appreciate your opinion....i just need to know, if she is with om, i walk. if not, she has some explaining to do. you don't tell everyone around you you are going on a business trip 3 hrs. away and end up in paris.
Just trying to help get you on track john210. And it's something I can speak to - since I'm living it.
I say again, john, it doesn't matter. OM. OW. Polygamy. Just go ahead and assume the worst. That's ok. But why are W's actions having an influence on your decision? If there is no OM - then what? Are you going to continue to push her away - or not fight for her - which is the same thing IMHO. Or are you actually going to make some moves.
John, it sounds crazy on it's face - but YOU are in control here. You control how you feel about all this. And I believe you have a direct impact on how this plays out in the end.
You are my pet project, John. I'm here for you. Just want you to focus.
Me - 43 and She -36. No kids. Married 7 yrs - Together 14 yrs
I don't think I have ever been called a pet before. Ok., so let us assume that I want this M to work. She will be home in 30 minutes and I know she lied about her whereabouts. HOW DO I HANDLE THIS?
