JOHN210(AKA the angry LBS or SOB)

[I_Wanna_Make_It_Work]

I'm hoping against all hope you are wrong ... I hate to even see how bad this is going to turn out. It's a no-win and you shouldn't be going this route.

If she is with OM - you get enraged and M suffers.

If she is not with OM, and she finds out you snooped, spied, tracked and stalked her - she gets enranged and M suffers.

How does this get you closer to your goal?

It's not only anti-DB, it's a sure fire way to sabotage any chance you may have and coming to an agreement - if that's really what you want. I'm still not sure john210.

I don't mean to pile on to your distress - but you are all over the place and need to focus on what you want. In or out. If you want out - get out. If you want in, stop this destructive behavior.