Yes they have to find out for themselves. Talked to a friend of my W's, she said W is chasing after a M'd co-worker. That he won't ever leave his W for her, but apparently she thinks she will change his mind. They have had a PA I'm pretty sure of, recieved a letter from super 8 thanking her for her recent stay, which she had the next day off.
W never initiates contact, she will return a call from me though. Like I've said, no exageration, when she isn't working all she does is sleep. I'm going to try to call her later in the week.
First day back to work, it felt good. They are keeping me on light duty so far.
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26