Thanks! You guys always give me a lot to think about.
I am ticked off, but I haven't begged, pleaded, etc.
I did tear up a little bit last time I saw him, which was Monday, but that was because I was thinking I might lose my house. He offered to buy it, which really got me because he's the one who left it! I have lived in this house for more than 20 years before he came into my life and he wants to waltz in and put me out? I don't think so!
I just said "I'll be all right", and then I walked on. Then he texts me with the invite that night.
H had to text me twice before I would answer back to him more than a day later, and I didn't agree to see him till this Saturday. I didn't want to seem too eager at all. And it's kind of funny because maybe one second after I had just pressed "send", he had already answered me back with an ok for lunch this Saturday.
I think he his eager to talk finances and the big D.
And yes, right now, he is "the enemy". Friends certainly don't treat people the way he has treated me!