I have a nose. I like my nose. A friend of mine once suddenly asked me if I'd had a nose job - like I'd sneaked off and had it done. I absolutely had not. I think the rest of me had grown into my nose.
One of the things that I have noticed about having crushes is that you get all tingly about the weird little things that would normally turn you off. I remember staring at the back of one of my crushes' hairy neck and just itching to touch it. Normally if I saw someone with a hairy neck I would think - yuk!
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong