That's a good letter Hairdog, it's good to see you have it all straight in your mind now. That was the point I got to in my M just before Christmas. I finally knew that I wasn't doing myself, my H, or my kids any good by sticking around married to an alcoholic. Things have got better since he decided to quit drinking. But the last couple of days haven't been great. It gives me the old fears again.
And that's the point you've got to too. You know that you're not really doing anybody any good staying in the M the way it is.
Keep breathing.
Fran
if we can be sufficient to ourselves, we need fear no entangling webs Erica Jong
