She truly isn't my focus and I am far enough detached to not worry about it affecting my alcohol issues. Matter of fact, I was speaking with an AA friend that is dealing with what I am, he asked what I expect to see in the 90 days from her side.
I told him, that in all honesty, outside of maybe some hanging out and sleeping on my couch, she won't bring up any IC, MC, Retro, no steps whatsoever. I said I would be totally floored to see her do anything of the sort. He asked what I expected out of her then. To try and find a way to manipulate the situation for her advantage or money.
It's horrible to say this, but that is the way i see it. Everytime she needs a check, even if I legally owe it to her, she is peaches and cream, rest of the month, ah go eff yourself. Like I have said before, this is how her mother is towards W's father, I think they are just those type of people that aren't really happy unless they are miserable, or so they think.
