Walk Away wife

[Dom R]

I am a salesman and want fast results. I want my baby back!

I think the only advice i should give you at this point, is this:

you need to be more than a salesman.

rushing, and wanting "fast results", was the biggest trap I fell into. time and again, I made things even worse than they were, by not being patient. I made things worse, by trying to force things to move at the speed I wanted, instead of at the speed she was ok with.

Maybe think about planting a seed. You planted it because you want a nice flowering plant someday
You can rant and rave all you want at the pot... but it's not going to sprout any faster for you.

Once you actually see little greet shoots pushing up through the soil, you might get very excited. "All right! Results!!!"
But you STILL cant grow it any faster than it is going to grow.

if you try to over-water it.. or give it "extra sunshine".. or a whole host of other things.. you will kill it.


you are very lucky, in that you narrowly avoided being separated.
Enjoy what you have. be thankful for that. Dont push too hard.