H moved out 12/1 and filed for D last week. I am still in our apt and I have just realized in the last two weeks how much of a raod block it is in healing and grieving. I have been holding on for a cheaper apartment complex to have an opening but they don't have a hi turnover and it is a small complex. Everything else that works for me and my 16 yr son (H not father) is $100 over what I can really afford. I staretd to pack when I thought I would be movig in Dec and can't justify unpacking to decorate they way I want to just to re-pack again next month or in Mar.
Just trying to avoid to moves w/in a yr but also try to keep by sanity intact - which is proving to be really hard living in the "marital" home. No chance of reconciliation either so I need out!
So if I stay any advice on how to make it different for the next month or two w/out a comeplete re-haul? Driving home and walking up those steps proves difficult to but those are things I can't change?
Me 34 H 32 (2nd M) M 2.5yrs Together 4yrs My S (15yrs old)
