catfan, I felt the same way when my W gave me the D papers. It really sucks... It's like I didn't uphold the to love and cherish part. And then she didn't uphold the for better or worse part.... It took two to bring down the marriage and it took two to break the vow. Well, it also takes two in the end to rebuild it. On the positive side, it's not the D paper, just the S agreement. There's hope.... Hang in there bro, God will see you through this.
M: 31 W: 31 M: 7 T: 8 S:4 D:2 Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one S on 9/2/07 W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.