No worries about my H. He does need to grow up. I've been trying really hard and at some point he's just going to have to accept what happened as a mistake and move on. I can't do that for him though, so it gets frustrating.
funny, it probably didn't even surprise you that much to hear it again. Not that it makes it any easier, but still. I personally think that she is confused. For me, I find myself having random thoughts about being alone or not being able to stay with H, but when i have them, I just talk to God. I say, please God, no more of those thoughts... then i flip on the radio or make a phone call or something. If i think like that it will distroy me and my resolve to make this M work.
She is giving up hope. I have no attraction for my H, so I can see how hopeless that feels. I know it's terribly hard. I just keep praying that i'll figure out how to bring it back, that God will help me feel those things again.
You're right, there is no arguing with her. Those are her feelings. I know that other's may argue this point, but I think her living alone for a little while might help. Seems backwards to think that her leaving will bring her back, but if she has a chance to miss you, it may make a world of difference.
ann
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
