ann, thank you very much. did not mean to pick on your husband. but i read your situation everyday, and i see how much you are trying do make up for the ea. i get you about trying to circumvent the Lord and try and do it ourselves. i know with out a doubt than i cannot do anything but love my wife unconditionally. the Lord is control. i just need to remember that when i get down. everything has been so smooth the last month. then this. over the last 4 months this is the pattern. w seeems to go 3-4 weeks and then decides to do something about the divorce. then when time comes to do it , she doesnt. i know at dinner last night, when she told me she was going to file. i did not say anything at all. i just went on to the next subject. caught her by surprise. so , on one hand it seems she says things to get a reaction. on the other when i dont react, she seems baffled. she says she cannot start fresh with me because she feels no attraction like a wife should for her husband. how can i argue with that.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023