Treese:

My S19's girlfriend gets concerned because S19 is SO much like his dad - looks like him too. I reminder that he is 1/2 of me too and that's not too bad and not to let my H's issues scare her.

The health club I called called me back and told me that someone had paid for a yrs membership! Thank you my little angel! I was wondering how I'd pay for it without H knowing. He so wants to know what I'm spending the money on. All he has to do is look at the ck book. He thinks all I care about is the money and that I think he was only "a paycheck".