Hi LM - I could try. He's been pretty opposed to reading books, thinks of it as homework. Sex and my love and desire for H (or lack there of) are only a couple of the issues we have and I've tried to get him to read before. NMMNG has a website though, right? I could probably get him to check that out, maybe by accident ;\) . H says he wants M to work but anytime i bring up books, counseling or even talking about it, i can count on an arguement. I don't even read my M books around him. I'll check out the book though. A better understanding of him will help. \:\) Thanks.