Dom - Thank you. I felt like i was put in this place where saying anything was wrong. No matter the reason for not wanting it, it would come down to my not loving him enough. That's exactly what he was doing. I don't know that I'll bring it up because part of it probably came from his mood, but i know for sure that next time I will.
More ammo for you:
If he ever dares to bring it up again, or even get snippy at you about it, try this:
"Honey, I would be happy to do that. I just feel a little, teeny tiny shadow of doubt in my mind. so i'd like you to 'prove' that you love me first. By getting a tattoo of my name... on your penis. Oh.. and it needs to match nicely with the "prince albert" piercing that I'd really like you to get.
That's not a problem, is it? After all, you Really Love Me, dont you?"
No-one has the right to demand or expect that another person mutilate their body for them. Tattooing, is permenant scarring/mutilation of the body. If someone chooses to do it to themselves, that's their choice. It shouldnt be something to demand of someone else, though
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle