craig - I may not post here, but I follow along and i'm sorry to read that you guys have come to this point. I agree with the previous posts that you should see if there is a step you can take before the actual D. It's not to say you can't both come back together after D, but it's be easier if it wasn't that permanent.
I really wanted to say that i your prayers and unconditional love for your W are reallt so encouraging for me to see. Reminds me of Phil 2:3-4... "Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others." It may be hard and no ones perfect, but I can totally see that you are really concerned for your W. Not only to fix the M or to get her back, but because you love her. Awesome.
I heard something so smart in church the other day. There are so many verses about the power of prayer in the bible, but the key is truly believing that God WILL do what you've asked him. So many times i pray and then try to figure out how how to get things done on my own, really it's so important to trust God and know that he will provide for you as promised.
Fight for her and hang in there.
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