The crazy thing about all this is I haven't ever felt better or more comfortable in my own skin than I do right now. It really is her loss. I do know whatever happens I will be ok. The best thing I or anyone can do is to be our own best friends.
As someone advised you, I don't have to stand too close. There is no hurry, I will not be filing.
Phoned home last night (w's b.day)to talk to the kids and w answered phone. "All the kids are outside running around", no offer to get them or anything. I just said 'ok, say hello for me then', didn't bother with any b.day wishes, probably should have but I'm past it.
