Sooner;

I too have told my D21 and D15 that dad is in a crisis, that I love him with all my heart and I am sticking by him. I married him for better or worse. It's committment, it's loyalty. Just because you come to a fork in the road you don't bail. You stick by each other and work through it....You owe it to your family to at least try...
Of course my D21 response is I don't know why you still love him, I would throw his stuff out on the front lawn.

I did ask my H what he would tell D21 if her boyfriend were to cheat on her....would he tell her to dump him or work on their relationship of 5 years...He said, "I don't know", imagine that, his favorite phrase...

All those years do matter...just our husbands don't see that..

I cry for my children, myself and the life we should be sharing right now...can't go back on the past year...let's move forward together, leave the past behind and build a better future...too bad my H won't even consider it right now...

You gave me an idea on the pole....remember I just bought a new bra and underwear..the pole might get his attention...

wouldn't that just be soooo awesome to learn to do something so sexual and then perform for you H or whomever it ends up being...okay,,,I need to wake up....the no sex thing is sending me over the edge...LOL!

Treese

Last edited by Treese; 01/16/08 07:39 PM.
Treese

H 49
M 45
D 23, D17, S12
M 25 T 31
01/07 OW H at my door w/proof
Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07
Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass,
Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9
11/08 pos.paternity