For Those w/ LD Wives

[RedHeadWife]

I agree w/ Lou's scenerio also. I noticed that it does take awhile to "get back into the swing of things" after a long period of abstinence. Why then allow there to be the abstinence is a good question. I noticed when I went to visit H in Korea, that it took a few days. When he came home, it didn't happen that way, but I started PMS'ing or something and something switched and things just weren't happening for me. In the past, that may have led me to just kind of give up again and just not want to put the effort in, however, I've learned my lesson the hard way and I am now willing to keep going and know that one of these days things will get better again and they did.

I just think a lot of the guys on here w/ wives who seem to have absolutely no interest in sex could have some of the same reasons as I did and always want to offer up anything I can think of to help.