Off the wall, and only half-serious, thought about tattoos:

I might consider a picture/symbol/image that reflects my love for W if I could find one that (in the event something happened to US) either...

- Would remind me of a happy EVENT or PLACE.
- Could be changed into something otherwise meaningful to me.

I was just wondering if (once baby comes, obviously) there's an option out there that would satisfy him without sacrificing your ideals. Certainly would be along the lines of doing something different, eh?

Same But Different

T - 7 years
M - 2 years (my 2nd)
Bomb (ILYBNILWY) - 10/19/07
WAW - 12/29/07
W home 12/30/07

My D(18) lives with us

'The aliens abducted my wife, and all I got was this T-shirt!'