CAC will go {days, weeks, months, years} without wanting it again...if it’s so good, how can anyone NOT want to do it all the time????" I can tell you what I heard from BB when we were having sort of regular sex. She said it took a long time for her to "get there" and the pleasure she did have seemed small in comparison to the work/effort, on her part, to get there.
I think that is why some W’s don’t think sex is that big of a deal. It is like Thanksgiving dinner, takes a lot of preparation, something you want to do, but not that often.