Well, I'm glad you figured that out. but um...it does seem like a fairly obvious place to start.
I think the much more common conundrum is the HD who says something along the lines of "...on the rare occasions when we DO actually do it, she has an O, every single time, its always all about "her", etc, etc, and yet, will go {days, weeks, months, years} without wanting it again...if its so good, how can anyone NOT want to do it all the time????" much harder to solve.
