I have right now is her saying she doesn't have the feeling anymore and whether she will get it back ============ At this stage of your marriage life, what binds you is commitment, feelings come and go, and loving feelings can return with time. I know you are aching to ML with her, but for now start with 0 expectations, just hold her hand briefly or when she allows it hug her for a bit, that's how you start. Neediness is a lowsy way to make yourself attractive, I know it hurts, but hang in there, this is a long ride. I see many good signs and I pray for patience for you and that in time she can wake up from her MLC. No matter what you show her (DB book) her mind will only believe what she wants to believe.
Also, please give the anti-D time, (my H is depressed), dont' expect an overnight change, it takes a while, see your dr frequently to fine tune the meds, sometimes it takes a while to get the right dosage/med.
You are doing great, hang in there.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
