Honestly, I don't know what is real, what is not, any more. I'm not playing fair all the time, just being me.
As for getting me to explode, she can try all she wants, but after the medical condition this summer that was cleared up, I haven't lost my temper once. I can't even see myself getting to that point. I'm pretty mellow now, and since I'm typically a laugh it off, the cup is half full anyway, sorta guy, she can try, but it won't happen.
I'm bad I know, but I sent a text this morning to her saying "Why couldn't I come in this morning." No response! To funny. Cause she knows she is damned if she says why and damned if she makes something up. Shouldn't do that to her one day after her medical issue, but you know what, I'm not the cause of her guilt. Only she can make herself feel that way.
She needs to wake up and live like a real adult would.