I'm proud of you for not calling and emailing!! My H has gone dark on me but remains in contact with S15. I call him when I need something but won't email or text. I think he needs to hear the love and happiness in my voice. I could be crazy. It's amazing how after 20 yrs. he can just cast me aside so quickly.
The OW is 5 yrs younger than me & much smaller. I need to lose a bunch of weight. H has already lost his. Said it was for his health (now I know better). I do think I'm more attractive than OW! I called a health club to see about joining - part of my GAL.
Spoke to SIL who suggested I call MIL to get advice and smooth things over with her. It would definately be a 180 for me and if MIL tells H then maybe he'll see I'm making efforts to change.
Yesterday was a BAD day for me. Cried most of it. They are not as frequent as 2 mons ago.
I hope our H's start to realize that even though their fantasy world grass may be greener that it's been well fertilized with BS and not true love. I hope they both end up with weeds!!
All we can do is keep praying for their (and our) sanity and of course color that gray hair they are causing us! LOL
