H naps during the day a lot of times. I guess he was really tired yesterday and napped a couple times. He always has and remembers his dreams. They've gone from me cheating on him to (yesterday) me leaving him because I didn't like him anymore and me being happy with someone else and multiple variations of that. So i get home yesterday and he's grumpy and short tempered. Sorry, but what he dreams and how he lets it effect him is soooo not my fault. He didn't actually tell me that his mood was a result of these dreams until we were in bed, so i didn't have a clue...
D3 wasn't listening well (no nap) and had a rough night, so he snapped at her. Then he snapped at me for giving her dessert. Helloooo, she ate her dinner well and that's the deal. Eat well and get dessert. We can't change the rules cause he's grumpy.
Anyways. we are laying in bed watching LA Ink. I'm a big art fan in any form and H just recently got his first tattoo, so it's something we both like. We are messing around. There was a porn star on it. I made a joke about how she basically has sex for money. He said sounds good he's got a couple bucks in the top drawer. I told him i'm worth more... blah blah blah... this was all in joking. I pretended to pout.
Later H asked me about getting a tattoo w/ his name on it. We've been over this about a thousand times. I don't want any names tattooed all over me. He said sarcastically "what cause you don't love me enough" i said no. That it doesn't matter, no ones name. He asked about the girls, i said no, doesn't matter. (he's been trying to talk me into getting one for a while, something small, but i'm still not sure i want that on me forever. He was pouting, so i leaned over him and made a joke with him and he laughed, but never rolled over...
He was really bent out of shape that i wouldn't do it. He said he'd never ask me too, but the fact that i wouldn't said alot. I tried to explain to him that i'm not even sure i want a tattoo, much less a bunch of names on my body. That if it was something that was really important to him and he really wanted me to do it, that i would, but I appreciate that he wouldn't ask me to do that.
Made for a very tense night after that. both kinda minded our own business. I was going to try with him last night, but his mood killed any chance of that. I don't know... maybe i'm whining. Does it sound so crazy that i don't want a name tattoo? it's not like he's going out and getting my name tattooed on him (not that it would make any difference).
Last edited by ann25; 01/16/0805:43 PM.
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