Listen to everyone, and then, get off these boards for a few days.
Being here is part and parcel of the problem.
Here you dwell on the wrong.
BTW Great job on the "I love me wall" Good for you.
The confrontation, normally not a good thing for DBing, also good for you, I say that because I'm not sure that DB tactics are what you need to get Frank back.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK