Let me echo COG. My W & I also worked out the asset split apart from lawyers (no mediation, just us). She then had separation papers drawn (almost a year ago). I haven't signed them. She asked me to hold off back in July and we've been talking and working toward something since.

Also - my W actually said the words that COG suggested. "Why didn't you fight for me?", she asked a few months ago.

Stay strong Craig - this is a test and you will pass as long as you remain grounded in knowing, by His word, He has "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.'" - Jeremiah 29:11. God doesn't go back on promises. He asks you to do the same.


Me - 43 and She -36. No kids.
Married 7 yrs - Together 14 yrs