TAL - I am far from perfect and my sitch was not always handled in the best DB terms. I just tried to balance DB and my heart and my gut. I did not give up, that is for sure even when he just kept telling me he was done. I just really believed in my heart that it was not him talking - if I could wait it out until he saw the real OW then I would have a chance. And that's really how it played out, she showed her true colors and he realized what he was throwing away...
Retrouvaille helped him immensly - though we are not writing each night like we should...but it helped more that MC that's for sure....
Thanks for your kind words!!
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Me41 H44 * M16 yrs * D13 S10 8/06 H wants a D * 1/07 OW Truth 2/07 Searated * 7/07 H moved home First Thread Surviving Separation Now Piecing