Waiting for WAW to come back, patience is a virtue

[SirPrizeMe]

Dave, everyone has done what you've done. Just back it off tho.

It poisons the relationship. Your inlaws and relatives may get really ticked off at your W, which makes it harder for her to come back.

Also, it feels like control and pressure to your W.

In the end the truth will come out. Act with integrity now, and keep your mouth shut, and you have nothing to worry about as far as your long term reputation with your inlaws.

if you want insight, contact someone OUTSIDE the relationship. no family, no one who has a relationship with W. A counselor. A distant friend. people here on this board.