w looked very quizzical and asked me what i thought about her filing. ???. i said do what you need to do.
I think it's okay to be honest with her, just not all emotional. It's okay to tell her it's scares the crap out of you, it's a nightmare, and it's not what you want. But do it with the courage and strength that comes from your strong faith in God. Let Him be your strength.
On the practical side. You might want to do some quick research on mediation as opposed to filing for D. Mediation is MUCH less expensive, especially for two people who are at minimum civil with each other. My W and I went through mediation and created a financial separation, which was to be followed by a marital dissolutionment that didn't happen, thank God.
Don't underestimate your W's desire to have you fight for her.
Hang in there Craig, it ain't over till it's over brother!
Love,
COG
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