I see from the bottom of the post that you just came out of an EA in September. On top of that your H wanted a D less than a year ago. On top of that you are pregnant with your third child. I don't know about you but having my third child flipped a switch in my head - I had always felt that if something happened (divorce, death of my spouse, disability) that I could make it with just me and my one or two kids. I even thought that as a single Mom I wouldn't be completely repulsive with 2 kids on my hip. When it went to three (now 4, LOL) I felt very vulnerable, I felt very alone (like, if something happened I would never find anyone to love me and my four kids). Are you having any of these kinds of feelings of vulnerability?? When I feel vulnerable I have a hard time finding my desire, wanting to do more intimate behaviors - I can still have sex. I can still give a hj or a bj but I don't find it so easy to get close.
