Well, WAW called last night...I immediately said you want to talk to 5D and she said, "No I need to talk to you". I thought oh crud what is this about...but it was another great, pleasant, full of laughter conversation... in brief, because I have work to do
1) She shared in detail about situation at work, bats in the building. We were almost ROFL about it. She shared about one swooping down toward her and she yelled about it and then looked to see if anyone watching. Shared a lot of laughter and I then showed I cared by telling her to be careful, etc.. 2) Talked about 5D school and dance class. She was very interested and said good many times regarding her progress. I even asked her opinion on how to teach 5D something. She said she thought I was doing just fine. Mutual validation I think. 3) Her work will not allow her to keep 5D on a day she is scheduled to. She offered to swap with me on my B-Day, if I didn't have plans. 4) We talked about really bad weather last week and the impact our work.
Hard to be specific being brief but...my thoughts/positives. 1) Again a very pleasant, enjoyable, and this time full of laughter conversation...I am losing count of consecutive enjoyable conversations. 2) I validated and once got to extend conversation by saying,"oh no" which lead her to describe situation in more detail. 3) She shared a good bit of her life 4) She did not have to share her life. She could have just said I have to work blah blah can you swap days with me and get off the phone. Instead we have another great conversation. 5) She thought of me and my B-day. 6) No lawyer stuff...
- It isn't an invite for a date, but it feels like a small step in the right direction. She is being so nice lately when we talk that I feel hopeful. Of course, it's hard not to think about a new life with her, but patience is the key because we are only taking 15 minutes steps once or twice a week.
