YES, it IS HARD.

You can do it. Stay busy. Don't have a cow.

You may get lonely. Understandable. Get a friend, someone you can trust implicitly, and talk to them at that time.

I have friends that I trust deeply. I can call them anytime. Anytime. Sometimes 3am, sometimes 2pm. Any time. They always answer. It helps just to talk sometimes.

Get a new hobby. Something fun. Something you always wanted to do. Expand yourself.

hang in there!


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Divorce final: Jan 2009
Making it up as I go....