H has also told me (to add to the 'crazy talk' list) "Everything will be the same with my family, you can still come to all the functions and be the same part you are now.". Oh does that mean that I bring the chips and OW brings the dip?

Heartbroken...
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What they fail to realize is truly how deep the hurt cuts us and if they continue on the path to end the M then they ultimately will end the true friendship - for me they go hand in hand....


Yes, H fails to see the hurt he caused. In fact, yesterday in one sentence he took NO blame for this summer, and then in the next sentence he says "It was my poor choices". ???? And I totally agree, how could anyone stay the exact same type of friends after a D? It just wouldn't work, at least not for me. And yes, true deep friendship go hand in hand with marriage, in my book.