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When I'm at work and starting to feel down, I look through the success stories here. That can help.

I also keep a spreadsheet (I know, it's a little geeky) with pages for my goals, the positives I've seen, and other motivational things I've discovered. I'll review that, especially the goals, when I need to work on my PMA.

Taking a walk sometimes helps - either outside if it's nice, or to the desk of someone who's likely to smile.

This last one may or may not help. I didn't have a picture of US at my desk. I added one of our wedding pictures when things started to get troublesome. It has taken some work, but now I look at it as motivation. I don't want to go back there, but I DO want to be that strong, confident, patient, passionate and slender (LOL) again...


Same But Different

T - 7 years
M - 2 years (my 2nd)
Bomb (ILYBNILWY) - 10/19/07
WAW - 12/29/07
W home 12/30/07

My D(18) lives with us

'The aliens abducted my wife, and all I got was this T-shirt!'