Oh, I also didn't mention the OW part of the sitch. She worked w/ him and one day while he was home, he went into work. At first, I was going back & forth whether to say anything. I finally just told him softly that it kind of "freaked me out" that he was going to see her again. He just told me that "Babe, you have absolutely nothing to worry about." So, I've written her off as not worth my time to worry about anymore.

For awhile there, I was wondering if my H was even able to be faithful after all the A's he's had, however, I know now that he is happy w/ me and our family and has no reason to cheat again.

Me: 38
H: 35
S4, S5, S10
Bomb 01/07
Wanted D - nothing would change his mind
Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb
Piecing 04/07
Deployed for a year 05/07
Still Piecing 2010
M 11 yrs 05/10