Do you think she has any doubt how you feel? Absolutely not! If you keep bringing up R. talk, you validate that what she feels is not right, and that usually pushes them away, which you know anyway. Give her a nice time, say goodnight and walk away into the dark!
Honestly no I don't have any doubts at all. For me it's a struggle not to always be showing love. Holding back seems so against my nature, my very being. But I need to find another way to show it that isn't so pressure inducing. Stepping away, letting go is the only thing I can think of right now. In other words, lovingly detaching.
D@mn it this is SO friggin' hard!!!
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
