Thanks much for your thoughts. It's the space thing I am having trouble understanding. She has all day and night to do whatever she wants. I don't contact her unless there is an issue with the kido's and she plays Tennis, Tans, Talks to her freinds, does real estate stuff and maybe meets with the OM. I made the mistake of asking her to read an excerp from DB on infidelity and how you can tell by what she says like "I love you but I don't love you". It lead to relationship talk which I could tell pushed her away. I feel her "relationship" is more than what she is telling me and it is killing me. She actually told me she missed speaking with him.
Again it is the space thing that is killing me, I think she would really like it at this point if I moved out for a while. I could never do that because i would miss the kids to much and I know I would never move back in again after going through all the turmole of telling the kids and moving and all that crap.
I love and miss her so much, all I want is my honey back! Time to cry.
