Don't know what to do - am I making a tremendous mistake?
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Are you asking us whether you are making a mistake in working on the marriage? Only you can answer that question. If you are not going to ever let go of the anger and hurt, then yes, you probably are making a mistake. But that's a question that only you can answer.
If you are looking for specific suggestions, then ask away. Most of us here have been were you are. Let us know how we can help.
