jersting still working on it

[RedHeadWife]

I don't know the answer for you. That seems like such a Catch 22, you know? On one hand, you want to act "as if" everything is going to be great & wonderful and just "throw away" the D action, however, on the other hand, if she does decide not to stay 6 months from now or whatever, you don't want to be stuck w/ her debt.

I think you need to go w/ your gut on this one. If you truly think you guys are going to be able to work things out and your M is going to last, I would say forget signing the debt document. I would say, if you feel in your gut that you are going to be able to work everything out, "start fresh" from here.