Gotta chime in here, I have heard similar things from my wife. "We can still all go to dinner together."
Um... does "all" include Shrek??? I mean, when I re-marry, I will not want my new wife going to dinner (or anywhere, really) with her ex-husband and their kids (and excude me). It's crazy talk.
No, no, no. It all changes with divorce. They think it's all gonna be "one big happy" only with mommy and daddy living separate lives.